Note to Bloggers

How many of you follow over 200+ blogs like me?

Okay I told a lie. LOL look closely. 188. Guess in my mind that's close to 200 right? tee hee.

How many of you actually comment on each and every blog?

( I don't. It's hard to keep up!)

Let's be real. Some of you I adore and read like 2 times a day. I relate to many of you, and thus these are the people I comment on fairly often, added on Facebook, and email regularly, and not all that short from exchanging digits with to text. :) LOL

However, some post wayyyyyyyy to much. As in more than 3 posts a day I'm not going to read em all. Sorry. A little to much time on your hands there! That's why you can SAVE posts for the NEXT day friends! just a helpful tip there! :) I will admit, if I've had a heck of a day where I posted first thing in the AM and something exciting happens, I may post again before going to bed but that's it! excessive posting is like asking me not to read what you write anymore. Just sayin.....




Then there are those who well.....write about the most random sh*t (sorry no nice way to say it) and day after day it shows up in my reader and I never comment well just simply because I cannot really relate your post to me. Some posts I read, I think Hmmmmmmm.... then then no thoughts come to my mind as to what to comment on your post! :( And I totally get some are having babies (i'm not so I can't relate and all they wanna post about is baby baby baby) And some are posting wedding (that doesn't bother me so much bec I'm like most girls a dreamer, and it's fun to see the pictures, the planning, the dresses all the details) And some are posting well Hate towards men and bad break ups and what not. Some are posting all about pets and I can proudly say I never tire of reading those! Some post merely on fashion, celebs, and make up. Okay from time to time. I comment here and there on those.

Make sense right? There are some blogs I started off following heavily in the beginning, and now they either don't update as much anymore (as I am sure life has totally gotten in the way or laziness. One of the two) and then there are just that well no offense just BORE ME! sorry. So dear bloggy friends, if maybe your following numbers go down, I don't mean to offend by not following you anymore, it's just if I haven't commented on your posts in like decades, then I am just not with you or can't really relate to you these days! No harm in being honest right?


I have a few new bloggy beauties that show up in my window and I go to click on your gorgeous little faces and I am instantly saddened, because you have not shared the link back to your own blog. Call me crazy but isn't that why you are on here? To share a bit of your life to strangers? Making networking connections? Friends? etc etc. If you don't show your link to your own blog, how can I ever blog hop on over to you and see what your world is about when you can so see into mine? Just sayin........

See these? these are your faces! when I click on them I wanna see the link to either an email to write you back or the link to your blog!  Go into your settings will fix this peeps! 

I do my best to write back to comments written to me. Although I will admit I am more of a gracious blogger in the sense of I don't always write back, just know I did read what you wrote and am grateful you stop by to even comment! :)


I do love my followers. Truly I do. I'm nothing special. I feel like the opening quote in the Notebook should be inserted here:

“I am nothing special; just a common man with common thoughts, and I’ve led a common life. There are no monuments dedicated to me and my name will soon be forgotten. But in one respect I have succeeded as gloriously as anyone who’s ever lived: I’ve loved another with all my heart and soul; and to me, this has always been enough.”

—	Noah, from The Notebook